I'll be happy if Carm ends up with nothing from the divorce. You can't marry a mobster then expect to break free and keep all your stuff. And it's fun to watch her try.
Poor Finn indeed. The engagement might save his life, or it might be a cause to get rid of Vito when he inevitably gets Finn. But that crack about letting a minority have the job was funny - in a "what has become of society" kind of way.