You don't understand hate?
Then how can you know your capabilities in life? If you don't comprehend that you are capable of any atrocity given the right circumstances, then you don't have a clue about who you are. Do you think that the people who became Nazi officers in charge of torturing Jews in WW2 Germany dreamed of becoming such monsters when they were your age? Of course not! But still they did so. Do you think that the Ugandan rebels looked foreward to chopping the hands off the men of the enemy tribes? Of course not! But still they did so. Do you think that people who lose their jobs, their houses, cars, and all assets understood that one day they would take a great chance and rob a bank? Of course not! But they did so.
If you don't realize that you are capable of burning babies or any sick, depraved thing given the right circumstances, then you don't know who you are. You are EXACTLY like the person that hates. The only difference is that the person that hates knows he has the capacity to hate. You just lie to yourself.