Why can't a jedi love, is the force a neutral entity that reacts poorly to love?
You misunderstand what he's saying. It doesn't mean a jedi is incapable of love, merely that it isn't permitted as part of their code. It's about self-discipline and commitment. In the same way that shaolin monks are celebate.
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