Out of the Blue

With immeasurable sadness, our family had to let go of my mom yesterday. She died at 3:35 p.m., leaving a hole in my and many other lives that can never be filled.

Thanks to all of you who have expressed kind thoughts on the subject of her condition. She was a strong believer of the importance of community, and was quite familiar with her identity here as MamaBlue, and she would have considered the support so many have shown to be a fine example of the benefits of a communal spirit. Likewise, my own thoughts are with the many of you who have described your own families' struggles with illness -- you have my sympathies.

Finally, thanks to Frans for his help catching up on today's news. I'm sure there are many questioning the need for me to jump back into this so soon, but it's been a good distraction, and with a funeral this weekend I really wanted to clear my plate to keep the backlog of news from being stressful and to prevent it from getting any more overwhelming.

Links of the Day: National Alliance of Breast Cancer Organizations.
Story of the Day: Talk Like a Pirate Day. Thanks TRNutt.
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Blues Mom
Sep 22, 2003, 16:10
Blues Mom Sep 22, 2003, 16:10
Sep 22, 2003, 16:10
 
Hi Blue.
I'm really sorry to hear about your mom.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
Be strong.
ALWEASEL

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My deepest condolences.
Sep 22, 2003, 11:26
My deepest condolences. Sep 22, 2003, 11:26
Sep 22, 2003, 11:26
 
What can I say that hasn't been said here already.

I'm never good with words (especially in these circumstances).

I wish you all the strength in the coming time.

"Porno laughs are not funny, ok?"
-David Brent-
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Re: For your loss
Sep 22, 2003, 01:15
Re: For your loss Sep 22, 2003, 01:15
Sep 22, 2003, 01:15
 
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For your loss
Sep 21, 2003, 17:57
D2
For your loss Sep 21, 2003, 17:57
Sep 21, 2003, 17:57
D2
 
I offer my deepest condolences to you and your loved ones. I hope your fond memories of her are able to bring comfort in your pain and loss on such an occasion.

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Sympathies
Sep 21, 2003, 13:31
Sympathies Sep 21, 2003, 13:31
Sep 21, 2003, 13:31
 
You have my sympathies Blue. I can't even begin to imagine what a difficult time this must be for you.

JP

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Your never alone.
Sep 21, 2003, 09:45
Your never alone. Sep 21, 2003, 09:45
Sep 21, 2003, 09:45
 
Many in the community have expressed their own personal experiences with losing a loved one and that they understand the pain your feeling. My wife's mother died the same day our first daughter was born so believe me: I know what your going through.

Just remember you've got your family, friends, and this community that are here to support you as you've supported us for so many years.

Best wishes to you and yours Blue.

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Re: No subject
Sep 21, 2003, 03:08
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No subject
Sep 21, 2003, 00:09
No subject Sep 21, 2003, 00:09
Sep 21, 2003, 00:09
 
I lost my best friend, basically a brother, a few years ago. One of the worst things I've gone through. Stick in there and remember God's always there for you!

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My condolences...
Sep 20, 2003, 23:26
My condolences... Sep 20, 2003, 23:26
Sep 20, 2003, 23:26
 
my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Take care of each other.

Rob

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=(
Sep 20, 2003, 22:23
Ian
=( Sep 20, 2003, 22:23
Sep 20, 2003, 22:23
Ian
 
I am very saddened by your loss Blue. I know you a little bit thanks to the OOTB, I really look forward to those little snippets of your life. I hope it helps knowing that all of us on this side of the computer are thinking of you. Be well my friend.

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My condolences...
Sep 20, 2003, 20:12
My condolences... Sep 20, 2003, 20:12
Sep 20, 2003, 20:12
 
to you Blue and your family.

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Re: May she rest in peace
Sep 20, 2003, 19:50
Re: May she rest in peace Sep 20, 2003, 19:50
Sep 20, 2003, 19:50
 
Again there are no words adequate for this. My condolences on your loss.

Chance

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Re: May she rest in peace
Sep 20, 2003, 17:44
Re: May she rest in peace Sep 20, 2003, 17:44
Sep 20, 2003, 17:44
 
I just wanted to send my best wishes, Blue. We're all very saddened by what has happened to Mama Blue. It was very hard coming to your site and waiting on potentially good news.

I send my sincerest condolences to you and your family.
-McBain

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May she rest in peace
Sep 20, 2003, 17:07
May she rest in peace Sep 20, 2003, 17:07
Sep 20, 2003, 17:07
 
My condolences, Blue. May MamaBlue rest in peace, and may you find it after her death.


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Condolences
Sep 20, 2003, 16:03
Condolences Sep 20, 2003, 16:03
Sep 20, 2003, 16:03
 
Thinking of you and your family.

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No subject
Sep 20, 2003, 15:46
Gus
No subject Sep 20, 2003, 15:46
Sep 20, 2003, 15:46
Gus
 
My Condolences.

The suffering is over for her.

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No subject
Sep 20, 2003, 13:46
No subject Sep 20, 2003, 13:46
Sep 20, 2003, 13:46
 
there must be something wierd going on. Blue loses two moms, my mom gets a hysterectomy (benign cyst thankfully).

I can't imagine, or even want to try, how you must be feeling Blue. I know it won't be over with just a cry and you'll be bearing it for quite a while. You won't grieve like you think you will, and never feel guilty to feel happy when you are grieving. Grief doesn't always bring tears.

All I know is, when you are feeling bad, try to have someone around who will do things to make you smile and laugh, even it's just one lousy joke that makes you grin. It helps break up the tears.

-Sam

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MamaBlue
Sep 20, 2003, 13:28
MamaBlue Sep 20, 2003, 13:28
Sep 20, 2003, 13:28
 
Blue, not much to say except, I'm sorry for your family's loss. I know how you feel, I lost my Dad to cancer on Feb 18, 2002, he was young 74.

Gotta go now........eyes seem to be leaking water.

Peace and love to you and your family.
- Trymeyes -
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No subject
Sep 20, 2003, 13:15
No subject Sep 20, 2003, 13:15
Sep 20, 2003, 13:15
 
I too send my condolences your way blue. I hope things are as well as they can be.

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No subject
Sep 20, 2003, 13:02
No subject Sep 20, 2003, 13:02
Sep 20, 2003, 13:02
 
I've visited this great site for many years and have the deepest respect for what you've created. My heart goes out to you at this sad period of your life.

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