Ha... only 195MB? That's nothing. If you're a regular at fileplanet or some other similar site, most demos that I see are at least 100MB+ and quite a few are around 200-500MB in size.
Most 56k'ers are in the minority now, so you're right, they don't care about you.
(Yes, I went 6+ months without internet access because I refused to do the 'net without broadband. :P)