As Prez said, "to thine own self be true" more or less. I need more info before making a political decision about it.
RougeSix is correct, IMO (based on ISW and many other sources) that a significant part of Russia, and probably a significant majority supports the war. Perhaps they've been misled, perhaps some are bullied, but it's true as far as we can tell. LIke many countries/peoples before, beating up some "others" feels great, especially if it doesn't really personally cost you anything. This certainly seems to be portrayed as a war against the "trans" agenda and many other Western decadences - any surprise an ignorant/poorly educated population believes something that makes it feel good, when few in Moscow/St. Petersburg feel any direct pain?