Dear jdreyer,
Then, maybe, you aren't completely meant for VR as you don't derive immense or enough pleasure like others do.
2 possibilities:
- You haven't a good enough VR system or it's not set correctly for lack of knowledge or experience.
Or
- Your body configuration, organic cabling (sight aquity), or psyche precludes a more thorough enjoyment.
Example: eyes too separate or too near for a good Interpupillary Distance (IPD) possible in the HMD, or hypermetropia, etc.
My IPD is carefully forced to a point partway between 2 of the 3 Quest 2 slot settings, but some people are outside of the available range.
Some like roller coasters, other don't.
Some easily lose their direction or position in RL, not my case.
Some love and appreciate (even as an art) volumes and the art of positioning things in a world, others doesn't get a pleasurable feedback.
Etc.
I have a dear friend that doesn't like music (and eggs!), in fact he hates any, doesn't know any song at all.
Extreme.
But others only appreciate the rythm and not the melodies: without drum hits a song is little for them.
I, instead, feel electricity like chills in my back and legs -a kind of barely orgasmic feeling- with many songs parts.
Moving in VR does something like that for me.
I feel something like it if I walk or turn rapidly with my eyes closed, a kind of rush that I love.
So, all of this will be meaningless or valid only to a point for those that can't get those sensations or do just in part.