I don't know how that was a personal attack, but let me try again.
Smite, you keep saying that you know what antisemitism is better than anyone else here because you're Jewish.
But you're not trans. Perhaps you should apply that logic to when trans people say something is transphobic.
And I have no clue why you keep going back to the "gender debate." That is way more broad than whether her comments are transphobic or not. And, again, maybe you should consider that you don't have as much experience in how large a spectrum gender may be as you do in being Jewish. I've tried to reign you and the others in a few times, but you guys keep trying to go from "is it transphobic to say no one is allowed to say they're a woman anymore" to "transphobia doesn't even exist and blah blah blah," things that are distractions and that people here maybe aren't really well read up on, don't have experience with any trans people, and are relying upon innate knowledge and emotions to define (on either side) and will never be resolved here