FloodAnxiety wrote on Feb 9, 2023, 15:21:
Using words you don't understand can also be a problem. Even if you don't mean to hurt someone, you still can. That's why it's important to take the time to learn about words and their meanings so that you can use them in a safe and respectful way.
I think this is important, too. I want to hurt you because I meant to hurt you, not because you got caught in the crossfire when I used something derogatory to you, but don't worry, you're awesome and I love you, I'm just using a major characteristic of you to describe someone I hate in a negative way, why are you so bothered by that?