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Quinn wrote on Jun 29, 2020, 10:07:jdreyer wrote on Jun 29, 2020, 04:13:Quinn wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 13:19:RedEye9 wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 12:05:
You are hired to do a job.
What part of “You’re not being paid to find a fuck buddy,” don’t you understand.
You should get an award for taking zero effort to understand where the other side is coming from.
In my world, a potential "partner" doesn't translate to "fuck buddy". You must be a lonely single. I met my partner at work and we have a 1,5 year old kid now. I know first hand the beautiful things that can come from social contact with others without having a regime hanging over you telling you want you can or can't do which isn't criminal. That you and your buddies are not willing to see this is frustrating. There is no having a civil discussion here, what with people like you constantly at the fucking ready with your endless supply of strawmen and vitriol.
It's certainly doable, but it's extremely tricky. Most men I've observed can't handle it. They can't recognize when a girl isn't into them. Then there's trouble. As a result, most companies these days are instituting a zero tolerance policy. And we can see from this chart that the traditional ways of meeting your mate are going by the way side in favor of meeting online (the only exception being bar/restaurant).
You observed the opposite of what I have observed, though. Most of the times I've seen guys try, the women were straightforward if they wanted nothing of it and the men respectful. Maybe it's a Dutch thing? Or maybe the gaming development industry is indeed the problem, with the stereotypical geeks having no clue how to behave toward women because they grew up in their basement? It's possible.
Btw, is "Meeting through Slack / Zoom / Skype" when it's work-related considered "Online" or "At work"? :PLOL.
jdreyer wrote on Jun 29, 2020, 04:13:Quinn wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 13:19:RedEye9 wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 12:05:
You are hired to do a job.
What part of “You’re not being paid to find a fuck buddy,” don’t you understand.
You should get an award for taking zero effort to understand where the other side is coming from.
In my world, a potential "partner" doesn't translate to "fuck buddy". You must be a lonely single. I met my partner at work and we have a 1,5 year old kid now. I know first hand the beautiful things that can come from social contact with others without having a regime hanging over you telling you want you can or can't do which isn't criminal. That you and your buddies are not willing to see this is frustrating. There is no having a civil discussion here, what with people like you constantly at the fucking ready with your endless supply of strawmen and vitriol.
It's certainly doable, but it's extremely tricky. Most men I've observed can't handle it. They can't recognize when a girl isn't into them. Then there's trouble. As a result, most companies these days are instituting a zero tolerance policy. And we can see from this chart that the traditional ways of meeting your mate are going by the way side in favor of meeting online (the only exception being bar/restaurant).
Quinn wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 13:19:RedEye9 wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 12:05:
You are hired to do a job.
What part of “You’re not being paid to find a fuck buddy,” don’t you understand.
You should get an award for taking zero effort to understand where the other side is coming from.
In my world, a potential "partner" doesn't translate to "fuck buddy". You must be a lonely single. I met my partner at work and we have a 1,5 year old kid now. I know first hand the beautiful things that can come from social contact with others without having a regime hanging over you telling you want you can or can't do which isn't criminal. That you and your buddies are not willing to see this is frustrating. There is no having a civil discussion here, what with people like you constantly at the fucking ready with your endless supply of strawmen and vitriol.
RedEye9 wrote on Jun 28, 2020, 12:05:
You are hired to do a job.
What part of “You’re not being paid to find a fuck buddy,” don’t you understand.
HorrorScope wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 17:33:Quinn wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 16:45:
Looking forward to the first "no flirting allowed" signs. Bunch of fucking drones we humans will become, afraid to interact with eachother socially. Many people see colleagues more than their partners and other family members, with 8 or more work hours a day, 5 times a week. Is it OK to give compliments during after-work drinks facilitated by the company? If so, is it allowed to recall the fine evening the next day or does that go too far?
"Unwanted flirting", wtf does that even mean? I envy Sepharo the Mind-reader, who only ever flirted with women who wanted his advances.
Funny I've been dealing with coworkers for 30 years, 15 of them in office and a lot of chit chat all day long, never had a problem keeping it on the up and up. People in business typically show their better sides because they have to get along and be proper for fear of losing their jobs. I guess I just don't find it all that hard, don't go to work looking to pick people up was a good rule then, is still a good rule now. Don't take advantage of your position. Don't think you can play your porno fantasies out at work, even if you do or try, you know you are playing a dangerous game.
Quinn wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 16:45:
Looking forward to the first "no flirting allowed" signs. Bunch of fucking drones we humans will become, afraid to interact with eachother socially. Many people see colleagues more than their partners and other family members, with 8 or more work hours a day, 5 times a week. Is it OK to give compliments during after-work drinks facilitated by the company? If so, is it allowed to recall the fine evening the next day or does that go too far?
"Unwanted flirting", wtf does that even mean? I envy Sepharo the Mind-reader, who only ever flirted with women who wanted his advances.
Quinn wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 14:02:
You are talking about a form of "guilty" that is becoming old school. We covered this earlier, when people myself included mentioned the assault on due process. The mere accusation can be the killing blow for someone's career. That damage is done, however, and is not due to workerspace reform but due to the cancel culture that is on the rise. What, after all, is due process really good for if you are already expelled from your clan by its stupid, tribal members prone to drawing their own conclusions exempt from any charity?
Quinn wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 16:45:
Looking forward to the first "no flirting allowed" signs. Bunch of fucking drones we humans will become, afraid to interact with eachother socially. Many people see colleagues more than their partners and other family members, with 8 or more work hours a day, 5 times a week. Is it OK to give compliments during after-work drinks facilitated by the company? If so, is it allowed to recall the fine evening the next day or does that go too far?
"Unwanted flirting", wtf does that even mean? I envy Sepharo the Mind-reader, who only ever flirted with women who wanted his advances.
Sepharo wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 16:20:What do you mean. I’m a MALE, all women, or men for that matter, should welcome any form of attention I decide to offer them.
People, men and women, should be able to go to work without being the target of unwanted flirting.
So radical.
HorrorScope wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 12:33:Dev wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 17:59:Beamer wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 17:12:I agree, because this is a societal thing, not a right or left thing. Plenty of examples on both sides of terrible people including in politics.
How about we all just agree to be respectful to people? And if we aren't respectful to people we work with, we all agree that there will probably be consequences for our behavior?
Right and Right. IMO we on the sideline should chill a little to. We don't really know the 1/2 of it, each is their own case and I would be dollars to donuts most will be handled the way they should with a fair'ish outcome. If men are being unfairly targeted there should be little to no evidence to prove them guilty.
Dev wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 17:59:Beamer wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 17:12:I agree, because this is a societal thing, not a right or left thing. Plenty of examples on both sides of terrible people including in politics.
How about we all just agree to be respectful to people? And if we aren't respectful to people we work with, we all agree that there will probably be consequences for our behavior?
RedEye9 wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 10:27:Beamer wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 09:50:TrueRedEye9 wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 09:30:Beamer wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 19:09:it was spot on and got archived
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As almost always, Vernon was the better person
And even though it violated forum rules it doesn't stop everyone from agreeing with what you posted.
A person should be able to go to work and not have to worry about whether the drunk in the next cubicle is going to ask them out for a drink or compliment their makeup.
Not to mention the rules against fraternization.
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As almost always, Vernon was the better person
Verno wrote on Jun 27, 2020, 09:02:WaltC wrote on Jun 26, 2020, 17:10:
If you say, "You look nice today, Pam," or you ask a female "Would you maybe like to go for a beer after work?"--neither of those is sexual harassment. It's certainly not being "unprofessional." It's called "being social." I don't really care how a female might "interpret" something like that--it doesn't matter to me. Why? Because no man is a mind reader...;) I not only don't know what she is thinking, I can't know what she's thinking--unless, of course, I ask her a question or engage her in polite conversation. If she says, "Get lost buster, ya' bother me!" it's easy enough to take the hint.
Actually either of those is enough to get you into a discussion with HR these days at a modern office if someone complains about it. You wouldn't be terminated if it's a first offense but you would certainly have a chat. And frankly they would have a right to, the fact that some women have been patient with your awkward advances or ill thought out "compliments" doesn't change that. Their appearance is not for you to judge out loud in a work environment, how presumptuous of you to even think that's somehow appropriate. Frankly I don't think you work in an office because your notions of office dynamics seem straight out of a rom-com. And if you did you would have some inkling of how important yet fragile a career is and that some things are not worth risking.
And again there are plenty of ways to meet women that do not involve work. Women are literally everywhere, if you're so chatty and confident I'm sure you will have no issue meeting one outside of the office. Get a hobby or failing that get a dating app. I get it, social responsibility with dating is mostly on men to take chances but a lot has changed in the past 20 years. And work is no longer a smart or "safe" spot to do it for a variety of reasons. Stuff has changed, adapt.
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