There's tons of full servers, they just all play Conq 64.
Hardly anyone plays hardcore, or any custom servers. Haven't seen a Rush server in months...
Frontlines is the hot shit right now, ever since they added that mode to the vanilla maps. It's pretty good. 32 man server, all focused on 1 flag to cap, very intense.
Just wait till Incursions goes live, that mode is so great (for me), as i was big into comp 5v5 back in the bf2 and 2142 days.
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