I heard about this Deaf Culture thing earlier, and did some research, because, frankly, the whole concept seemed far too bizarre to me. What I saw worried me- some of the people in "Deaf Culture" are convinced that being deaf makes them better than people who can hear... Now, I really hate prejudiced people, and, to me, this sounds really prejudiced (but heaven forbid I dare insult a disabled minority!) I don't care what individual coping mechanisms people use; it's good to have self-confidence, however you derive it, but don't tell me you're better than I am because of a specific genetic trait.
Those in Deaf Culture argue that because they speak their own language (American Sign Language), they should be considered a seperate culture, and the collective experience of growing up deaf gives them a cultural identity, sort of like being a member of an ethnic minority. Well, folks, lets think about this- ASL is not a written language. It's a subset of standard English, converted into a visual form. If you want to write something in ASL, you need to use standard English. That just about eliminates "Deaf poetry". You can be a Deaf poet, but any hearing person can still read and understand your work, and, if you're a good poet, maybe even be able to relate to it in some small way. Additionally, looking specifically at syntax and grammar, ASL as signed is semantically different from English as spoken (ie, verb and adjective placement, etc)- so if you try to write it down, you end up with poorly written English. This is really bad if someone was taught in ASL so exclusively that they can't write grammatically proper English (which does happen on occasion, especially if Deaf parents want to be sure their children maintain their "Deaf Identity".) This further seperates them from functioning society, which is a shame, because it doesn't need to be that way.
Okay I've written way too much already, but I seriously feel it's wrong to purposely inflict a disability on a kid. When that kid does get old enough to understand his choice of having a hearing aid or not, is he going to hate his parents for not giving him one, and making it that much more difficult to learn spoken english (and probably extremely difficult to speak it himself, without sounding "funny" and getting odd looks from those he's speaking to.) - and therefore forever carry hatred and resentment towards his parents? Or will he be so steeped in Deaf culture by then that he dispises the lowly, pathetic "hearing people"?
Forgive me if I've offended any deaf person not a member of Deaf culture. You guys probably can see how silly those Deaf people are being. To the Deaf people, fine, go ahead, tell me you don't have a disability. Just don't blame me when you walk in front of a train because you didn't hear it coming.