Like I said, maybe you just suck?
I've met a bunch of great people playing in the BWE's, and have had some awesome groups. If you group with a bunch of f'n morons, obviously it's not going to be a whole lot of fun...
Things are changing a lot from month to month, and it's getting better and better.
It's massively multiplayer, and it's an RPG... so I don't see why it wouldn't be considered a MMORPG... It definitely doesnt follow the cookie cutter mold other MMORPG's have, and thank god for that. You don't have to play x amount of time or reach level x to have fun. There is no level grind, and it takes SKILL to win at PvP, not just time.