What part of the Netherlands Eldaron? We had a few Dutch guys here in Japan, and they were interesting, though 2 of them kept yelling the word "KANGAR" far too often...
As for how I feel about it? It's a mixture, as shared by several other posters here. On the one hand, we have freedom of religion and expression in America, and yet on the other, it seems rather insensitive and rash to build a mosque given the current climate. One might argue that the given climate is the exact reason it should be constructed, but I fear that some people will react venomously.
Ultimately I agree with Seph, I hope that people in NY can show they're the better man in this situation and not vent their spleen on what I consider to be an ill-timed decision.