And women continually wonder why men think they're so stupid. 'Oh no baby, I'll always keep it private, just between us. Trust me.'
I've seen a lot of the tits of women I work with over the years because they take shots themselves! I just ask them if they have any pics and can I see one because I'm curious and they're all like 'Sure, go ahead.' Granted I don't make a big deal out of it and they know I'm cool about it, but still it boggles the mind.
Edit: Regardless, it should be the person's right to say if they'll permit it or not.
"We choose the right to be who we are. We know the difference between the reality of freedom and the illusion of freedom."