And women continually wonder why men think they're so stupid. 'Oh no baby, I'll always keep it private, just between us. Trust me.'
I've seen a lot of the tits of women I work with over the years because they take shots themselves! I just ask them if they have any pics and can I see one because I'm curious and they're all like 'Sure, go ahead.' Granted I don't make a big deal out of it and they know I'm cool about it, but still it boggles the mind.
Edit: Regardless, it should be the person's right to say if they'll permit it or not.