As for the criteria, you *do* know the most played MP games on PC right? TF2 is as far away from realism as possible, and the most successful mp shooter around. Which tells me (most) people do not want realistic games ;p
You said it wasn't in the same "competitive SP MP as BF3 and MW3" but didn't specify what that even means. Your posts indicate a lack of knowledge about this game too, you already posted there was no SP at all. It seems to me that you're just here to rain on the parade and be a negative troll.